Past is what makes your present and your future...you are somehow bound to act in accordance to your past experiences/traumas. I sometimes myself thinks that why I react to certain situations in my life the way I did. I felt that somehow I didn't have any/less control in what I did because inconcisouscly I was leading by these past experiences/traumas... all these experiences makes me feel that we can never be free from our past... whether we take it in a good way or bad way it's totally depends upto an each and every individual... I feel my past has put on some visible/invisible chains on my thinking or on my heart that ate too hard to break!!! I will never be able to free from this trauma....and maybe I don't want to These experiences is what made me...good or bad I can't say or know..